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F69 - It will be interesting to see which one of you "breaks" first when out in public. In that which one of you will point out to the other a black guy you think might "be her type."
I doubt she will ever bring it up again unless she has had a few drinks!Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 11:23 amF69 - It will be interesting to see which one of you "breaks" first when out in public. In that which one of you will point out to the other a black guy you think might "be her type."![]()
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Fapster69 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 1:04 pmI doubt she will ever bring it up again unless she has had a few drinks!Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 11:23 amF69 - It will be interesting to see which one of you "breaks" first when out in public. In that which one of you will point out to the other a black guy you think might "be her type."I need to find another way to broach the subject when we are sober!
F69 - All YOU need to do is a slight tap with an elbow and perhaps a slight clearing of the throat.![]()
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I made a joke about putting one of the videos on that I showed her the other night and she said, "absolutely not!Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:55 pm
F69 - All YOU need to do is a slight tap with an elbow and perhaps a slight clearing of the throat.![]()
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F69 - Or, as you stated, let sometime pass and nothing. Then when you know she is around and coming to bed?, put some head phones on and play a video you think might be of the correct content and wait for her to come in the room and "surprise" you. You'll either get a possible replay or totally shot down.Fapster69 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 14, 2023 8:30 amI made a joke about putting one of the videos on that I showed her the other night and she said, "absolutely not!Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑Tue Sep 12, 2023 4:55 pm
F69 - All YOU need to do is a slight tap with an elbow and perhaps a slight clearing of the throat.![]()
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That’s a good idea!
F69 - I would say a good start would be having a casual talk about what her "type" is. Then when you are out together (timing and mood are everything of course) you could give her a nudge, nod "Does he fit the bill?" , or some other appropriate comment.Fapster69 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 17, 2023 3:05 pmToday we watched porn again during sex and she was totally cool with it!![]()
I put on a video where the hotwife looks like my girlfriend and my gf said, “my ass is better than hers!” She then criticised the bedding in the video and said surely I could find a better video than this!
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She’s went from hating porn to saying my porn isn’t good enough!!Now that she’s open to watching porn I need to sit down with her and find out what she’s into!
She also said to me, “I love how you say you want to watch me have sex, but if I turned around and said I’ve found someone you would panic!”
I said, “do you have someone in mind?” and she said no, she was just making a point. I then said if for “talking sake” it was really to happen, then it should be with someone from out of town (so no-one finds out).
She said she will never do it in real life but is fully open to indulging my fantasies during sex!
I don’t know where to go from here! I want to play around with the fantasy a bit more before I tell her I am actually serious about it!
She asked how I got into this fetish and I said I watched a video one day and was hooked! I told her I love watching her in action! She has sent me nudes before and I said that’s why I love your nudes too, you are a goddess to me and I love to look!
Fascinating progress here Fapster. LOL. It’s almost like you are accidentally falling into progress that many never achieve with well thought out plans!Fapster69 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 17, 2023 3:29 pmThat’s a good idea!
going to propose sharing a few of her nudes online and showing her mens reactions to them! She was against this in the past but now that she’s indulging my fantasy she might be more open to it! Seeing their comments might awaken something in her!![]()
We've been together 10+ years now so we're at the point where we can tell each other anything!PlayboyFan wrote: ↑Wed Sep 20, 2023 12:29 pm
Fascinating progress here Fapster. LOL. It’s almost like you are accidentally falling into progress that many never achieve with well thought out plans!
Seriously, you are very lucky. I was there once. It took me much longer to achieve even remotely the cooperation you are getting from your lovely wife…(GF?) I cant remember.
I’m impressed with your gutsiness. I recall the sheer terror.
Yes. Highly recommended. Its easily anonymous, which allows it to be another step forward but harmless fun if approached correctly.Fapster69 wrote: ↑Thu Sep 21, 2023 1:36 pmWe've been together 10+ years now so we're at the point where we can tell each other anything!PlayboyFan wrote: ↑Wed Sep 20, 2023 12:29 pm
Fascinating progress here Fapster. LOL. It’s almost like you are accidentally falling into progress that many never achieve with well thought out plans!
Seriously, you are very lucky. I was there once. It took me much longer to achieve even remotely the cooperation you are getting from your lovely wife…(GF?) I cant remember.
I’m impressed with your gutsiness. I recall the sheer terror.
It was still extremely difficult to come out with but I'm glad it finally worked and she was eventually receptive to it!
I think the main thing for her is that she doesn't want me using this as an opportunity to sleep with other women! She has been extremely loyal to me through our whole relationship, so I think me telling her this fantasy was out of left field because I had never once hinted at it in the time we've been together!
I think the next step will definitely be getting her speaking to people online. I'd rather we started slowly like that instead of jumping straight into real life meetups!![]()
Yeah that guy saying to rush and give her an ultimatum didn't have the best advice!KevDi69 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 12, 2023 12:18 pmF69, remember the tale of the tortoise and the hare. Slow and steady wins the race. As much as we would all like to see you making quick progress towards your goal, going slow, may be the best approach. Give her time to fully acclimate to the idea. You can have a lot of fun along the way as you progress along with her. Play with little victories, such as when you go to a bar and a man flirts with her and you can kid her about it. Then she’ll know that you’re not jealous of other men.
You may want to try reading stories about the slow progress, that other couples make on their journey to hotwifeing. Find some good ones and leave them open on your computer where she can see them. Give her the opportunity to read them on her own and might plant more seeds. Good luck and thanks for sharing.